Why We Need the Numinous
by Amara Rose
Speaker, Writer and Sacred Ritual Facilitator
In lieu of ceremony to honor the ebb and flow of daily life, typical Western rituals include checking our e-mail and working out. Lunch-hour laser surgery isn't far behind. "Tradition" means the product you're contemplating buying has been made by the same company for several generations: "A tradition of fine furniture since 1946." Family meals are an anachronism, eclipsed by a nanosecond lifestyle that equates eating with putting gas in your car: get in, get out, get going.
Yet our very beings are hardwired for the kind of care we consider an indulgence. To sit at table with friends and loved ones, sharing "slow food," is a sorely needed ritual for a starving spirit. It becomes soul-nourishing at a deeper level when we join hands to thank the growers, grocers and cooks who have brought the food from farm to fork.
Moonbaths are another simple way to get in touch with our essence selves, to slow down to the pace of health. Sunbathing is standard. But if you go to a serene spot free from streetlamps and traffic lights when the moon is full, and allow her to shine upon you in all her radiance, you'll tap into an ancient cellular connection.
These are just a few of the myriad ways we can use ritual to remember who we are, as multidimensional beings capable of so much more than societal dictates. Ritual renews our memory of wholeness, of a time when we knew how to cast a circle, call in our ancestors and spirit guides, invoke our intention with clarity and conviction. "Invocation" means, giving your vision a voice.
Living in harmony with natural rhythms expands our sense of what's possible. The "reality police" have become our invisible, accepted jailers. Ritual is a way to re-story our lives, revivifying the myths that have kept cultures through the ages cooking up a cauldron of creative possibility. According to the eminent mythologist, Joseph Campbell, a myth isn't something that never happened; it's something that is always happening. Disconnected from the source of this knowing, we pervert our productive energy. Without a mythological model for how to resourcefully contribute to the collective, teenagers may resort to gang membership and violence - mimicking their elders, who wage war on their own life support system.
Perhaps this is because our founding fathers neglected to include founding mothers in the new nation's governing body. It's intriguing to learn that our Constitution is patterned directly on the Iroquois model of leadership, with one notable exception: we have no Council of Clan Mothers (or Grandmother Council), the backbone of Native American decision-making. Imagine what our culture might be like if the White House consulted a group of wise women prior to implementing any major policy change.
During my own "dark night of the soul," I frequently found myself walking alone at night, singing, "fire and water," not knowing why, but trusting the rightness of my inner voice. Fire is the male essence; water is female. They are yang and yin, sun and moon, perfect polarities, as necessary to one another as all complementary pairings are to balance, healing, wholeness.
One useful ritual is to start noticing where you are imbalanced, and to spend time nurturing the flip side of this equation. This is holding the "both/and," which is about integration rather than separation. Our computers are binary. Humans are far more complex operating systems!
Take time to wander and wonder. Sit in a stream and sing. Be willing to follow your inner guidance-even if you look like a fool. When you can descend to the depths of your being and release what no longer serves, beginning anew in defenselessness and trust, you're on your way to becoming a vessel of wisdom for the tribe. Enjoy the journey, and remember to resurface when you're complete. We welcome-and need-your unique gifts from the well.
Amara Rose is a "spiritual midwife", speaker, writer, and sacred ritual facilitator. Learn about her e-courses, Living the Magic and The Inanna Initiations, at www.liveyourlight.com. You can also subscribe to her FREE e-newsletter, What Shines. Amara may be reached at 800-862-0157 or amara@liveyourlight.com.