Transcending Blinders To See The Other As Real by Tom Atlee Founder And Co-Director of the Co-Intelligence Institute A big part of co-intelligence is the ability to see through the eyes of others, to understand how another person or group could legiimately view the world the way they do. I have always admired Anna Deavere Smith's work http://co-intelligence.org/S-multipleviewptdrama.html because it promotes that capacity. Polarization http://co-intelligence.org/polarization.html impedes our ability to empathize with others or to deeply understand their point of view. Our capacity to enter into another's world is enhanced in group settings by processes which specialize in helping us hear each other -- such as DYNAMIC FACILITATION http://www.co-intelligence.org/P-dynamicfacilitation.html NONVIOLENT COMMUNICATION http://www.co-intelligence.org/P-nonviolentcomm.html STRATEGIC QUESTIONING http://www.co-intelligence.org/P-strategicQing.html LISTENING CIRCLES (COUNCIL) http://www.co-intelligence.org/P-listeningcircles.html CONSENSUS PROCESS http://www.co-intelligence.org/P-consensus.html At the whole-society level, another powerful tool for this is story. We experience this all the time in high-quality movies and novels, where we can view other people who are very unlike ourselves living unusual lives -- or usual ones -- in ways we can resonate with, despite their unfamiliarity. This brings out a form of co-intelligence I call resonant intelligence http://co-intelligence.org/resonant_intelligence.html. Story is one of the most powerful evokers of resonant intelligence (programs like the Public Conversation Project http://co-intelligence.org/S-beyondabortiondebate.html have used stories in this way to connect pro-life and pro-choice activists). Below we find an example of how writing a story describing life AS IF we were actually living in someone else's shoes can burn away the blinders that hide reality from us, blinders that thereby make our actions inappropriate. We can then wake up to what is real and co-create responses that are more fitting to the world as it really is. Coheartedly, Tom _ _ _ _ _ from nhne.com IF AMERICA WERE IRAQ, WHAT WOULD IT BE LIKE? By Juan Cole Professor of History at the University of Michigan Wednesday, September 22, 2004 http://www.juancole.com/2004_09_01_juancole_archive.html#1095823 66638394688 President Bush said Tuesday that the Iraqis are refuting the pessimists and implied that things are improving in that country. What would America look like if it were in Iraq's current situation? The population of the US is over 11 times that of Iraq, so a lot of statistics would have to be multiplied by that number. Thus, violence killed 300 Iraqis last week, the equivalent proportionately of 3,300 Americans. What if 3,300 Americans had died in car bombings, grenade and rocket attacks, machine gun spray, and aerial bombardment in the last week? That is a number greater than the deaths on September 11, and if America were Iraq, it would be an ongoing, weekly or monthly toll. And what if those deaths occurred all over the country, including in the capital of Washington, DC, but mainly above the Mason Dixon line, in Boston, Minneapolis, Salt Lake City, and San Francisco? What if the grounds of the White House and the government buildings near the Mall were constantly taking mortar fire? What if almost nobody in the State Department at Foggy Bottom, the White House, or the Pentagon dared venture out of their buildings, and considered it dangerous to go over to Crystal City or Alexandria? What if all the reporters for all the major television and print media were trapped in five-star hotels in Washington, DC and New York, unable to move more than a few blocks safely, and dependent on stringers to know what was happening in Oklahoma City and St. Louis? What if the only time they ventured into the Midwest was if they could be embedded in Army or National Guard units? There are estimated to be some 25,000 guerrillas in Iraq engaged in concerted acts of violence. What if there were private armies totalling 275,000 men, armed with machine guns, assault rifles (legal again!), rocket-propelled grenades, and mortar launchers, hiding out in dangerous urban areas of cities all over the country? What if they completely controlled Seattle, Portland, San Francisco, Salt Lake City, Las Vegas, Denver and Omaha, such that local police and Federal troops could not go into those cities? What if, during the past year, the Secretary of State (Aqilah Hashemi), the President (Izzedine Salim), and the Attorney General (Muhammad Baqir al-Hakim) had all been assassinated? What if all the cities in the US were wracked by a crime wave, with thousands of murders, kidnappings, burglaries, and carjackings in every major city every year? What if the Air Force routinely (I mean daily or weekly) bombed Billings, Montana, Flint, Michigan, Watts in Los Angeles, Philadelphia, Anacostia in Washington, DC, and other urban areas, attempting to target "safe houses" of "criminal gangs", but inevitably killing a lot of children and little old ladies? What if, from time to time, the US Army besieged Virginia Beach, killing hundreds of armed members of the Christian Soldiers? What if entire platoons of the Christian Soldiers militia holed up in Arlington National Cemetery, and were bombarded by US Air Force warplanes daily, destroying thousands of graves and even pulverizing the Vietnam Memorial over on the Mall? What if the National Council of Churches had to call for a popular march of thousands of believers to converge on the National Cathedral to stop the US Army from demolishing it to get at a rogue band of the Timothy McVeigh Memorial Brigades? What if there were virtually no commercial air traffic in the country? What if many roads were highly dangerous, especially Interstate 95 from Richmond to Washington, DC, and I-95 and I-91 up to Boston? If you got on I-95 anywhere along that over 500-mile stretch, you would risk being carjacked, kidnapped, or having your car sprayed with machine gun fire. What if no one had electricity for much more than 10 hours a day, and often less? What if it went off at unpredictable times, causing factories to grind to a halt and air conditioning to fail in the middle of the summer in Houston and Miami? What if the Alaska pipeline were bombed and disabled at least monthly? What if unemployment hovered around 40%? What if veterans of militia actions at Ruby Ridge and the Oklahoma City bombing were brought in to run the government on the theory that you need a tough guy in these times of crisis? What if municipal elections were cancelled and cliques close to the new "president" quietly installed in the statehouses as "governors?" What if several of these governors (especially of Montana and Wyoming) were assassinated soon after taking office or resigned when their children were taken hostage by guerrillas? What if the leader of the European Union maintained that the citizens of the United States are, under these conditions, refuting pessimism and that freedom and democracy are just around the corner? 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